“I love to speak” affirmation

[Adam Werth]

If a person loves to chat and is very loquacious (talkative), isnt repition of such an affirmation of “i love to speak” not neccesarry ?? Your showing you love to speak by chatting others ear off!!! You are speaking the affirmation itself!!!

[Prathusha Ravi]

Hi Adam,

Thanks for the post !! I think a person who stutters will not be someone who is loquacious but a taciturn. So, it is kind of ironic. A stutterer in my opinion will not open up so easily in a group/crowd, so it is pinnacle to train his mind to love to speak as he refrains from speaking at all because of his stutter. If a person who has a stutter and still loves to speak then it means that he is not at all embarrassed with his stutter and he will be able to do this only with the people who is not critical of him.

Any other views are appreciated.

Thanks,
PR

[Javier]

I fully agree with Prathusha. I would also like to add that when we stutter, we normally feel ashamed, humiliated…. we definitely don’t feel good. It’s extremely unpleasant. So the way I see it, someone who stutters when they speak, they can’t get to enjoy it, as long as they keep on stuttering. At least that has been my experience.
But as soon as our speech begins to improve and become smoother and more fluent, we begin to enjoy it more and more.
When we stop stuttering (become PWSS), at the beginning we will still be feeling fears and pressure, so because of this, we might still not enjoy speaking as much as we’d like to, but, just like before, as the fears and anxiety start to disappear, our love for speaking will increase.

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